Keeping it Real

Lack of self confidence is a real killer. It robs us of the belief in ourselves and our abilities. For years that has been my struggle, it showed up in my conversations, in my jobs, my relationships and colored almost every area of my life.

I was able to recognize this through the following ways:

-A 'woe is me' attitude fueled by negative thinking

-Negative self talk

-Afraid of speak up

-Shying away from responsibilities

-Always hiding in the background

These were just a few of the signs that comes immediately to my mind. Needless to say, those feelings and attitudes were hindrances to my growth and development. Let me share how they showed up in my life: